The air in Abuja, Lagos and indeed the whole nation, thick with the hum of generating sets, the inspiration of a youthful Nigeria buzzing with a continues question of “Stay or Japa” this summarizes the very profound dilemma facing Nigerian Youth today. This stands at the interceptions between national responsibilities and personal ambitions, an ethical backed consideration that requires a carefully navigated decision. This is not just about greener pastures but rather a deeper understanding of what it means to be a Nigerian and a young person in this 21st century.
The Attractive Pull of “Oyibo Land“
The allure of Japa for many is undeniable – migrating to North America, Europe and even some select African countries is seen as stable. News about functional systems (government etc.), economic opportunities and better infrastructures forms part of the pulling force thus painting a compelling picture for not just the youth, but basically everyone.

The allure of Japa for many is undeniable – migrating to North America, Europe and even some select African countries is seen as stable. News about functional systems (government etc.), economic opportunities and better infrastructures forms part of the pulling force thus painting a compelling picture for not just the youth, but basically everyone.
Faced with the daily realities in Nigeria– insecurity, social –political instability, poor infrastructure etc, so the dream of a more stable, predictable and prosperous life elsewhere builds significant interest – is it an ethical failing moving to where your hard work translates to tangible progress, your children having access to quality education and healthcare without steady struggles? The desire for stability and growth is a fundamental human direction and faulting people for desiring it elsewhere is simply immature and simplistic.
The Weight of Staying Back
On the other hand, staying back to build has its own profound potentials for impact. Nation needs all the energy, skills and innovations of its youth to address its numerous challenges. Movement in mass out a country called “brain drain,” has the possibilities of crippling vital sectors hindering national development. It is important to remain and contribute to the growth and development of one’s nation, ensuring you are part of the solution as against seeking refuge elsewhere. Patriotism and the desire to see Nigeria grow are great motivator for those who choose to stay back and fight for a better future irrespective of the challenges. This kind of commitments attest to a deep-seated belief of making Nigeria great again.
Careful Decisions amidst Obstacles
While Japa, in promising with opportunities, but these opportunities are not assured. There are always opportunities for exploitation with increase desperation to move leading to financial ruin and shattered dreams. There is also the pressure to adapt to new culture leading to potentially losing touch with one’s Nigerian identity thus raising questions about cultural preservation and personal values lost. The question then becomes Is it ethical to risk everything for a perceived better life, potentially compromising one’s integrity or falling prey to exploitation in the process?
Also choosing to stay back comes with its complex ethical challenges. There may be pressure on young people to engage in fraud and other corrupt practices just to secure favor and opportunities. The frustrating effect of insecurity, government and systems failures can lead to a sense of helplessness and disappointment. Yet countless number of youth have also chosen to operate with integrity within this kind of environment – building ethical business, creating impact and positive change within their communities. Their unwavering ethical commitment is truly inspiring.

Building the future Young Nigerians choosing to make a difference at home.
Knowing where You Belong: A Journey for Self and Country
Eventually, whether to stay or Japa in indeed a deep personal one, with ethical considerations that is not easily dismissible. There is usually a no all right answer. Each person must weigh the different options – individual circumstances and aspirations against nation building. The conversation must move from one of been judgmental to understanding where moving entails doing so ethically and staying will be greeted with empowerment for nationals building. The Nigerian Dream is not only geographically defined, but in pursuing a dignified and purposeful life filed with opportunities. Collectively, the ethics of this generation ultimately shape the future trajectory of Nigeria, whether the youth choose to stay or Japa – contributing from afar.